Hazrath Ali (R.A) A person is special and gifted who has these 3 traits in his nature and character.
1- The one who forgives others quickly and does not take revenge:
I know it`s very difficult to forgive others who hurt us and harm us but it is not impossible you can forgive that person. Whenever you get the thought about that hurt and harm forgive that person for Allah and do it repeatedly till the thought provokes no power and become powerless.
This means you have achieved your goal you have continuously forgiven that person and you are successful in this task.
2- The one who is grateful for the blessings Allah bestowed and is patient about the blessings he or she does not possess:
I do not know why but since when I was a child I observed life is full of people surrounding us who are envious of others for something or the other.
I know what it takes to have a large and gigantic heart to vanish envy from your heart if you are yearning for something which others possess.
If we remove envy from our hearts we will feel light and our eyes open up and notice the blessings which Allah has gifted to us.
3- The one who looks at others with a lot of respect and stays away from pride and vanity:
I always observed it is often a rich-class elite group of people who have so much of proud that they don`t want to spend time or interact with people who are poor and lesser placed than them.
But the one who looks at one and all with respect and stays away from pride is surely a special and gifted person.