Hazrath Ali (R.A) Said, “excess of silence creates awe.” There are many benefits of being silent and practicing complete silence makes you wise but there are some disadvantages too of being silent all the time.

Before discussing the disadvantages of silence let me tell you about 4 major and big benefits of silence.

1- Silence unites you with Allah

2- Silence decreases your stress and helps you in becoming a wiser person.

3- Silence helps you in becoming a successful person

4- Silence allow you to concentrate properly on your goals.

Now here is a list of 6 disadvantages of being silent.

1- People will not make you friend:

Do you know why? because people love to share their thoughts and feelings and love to gossip and if you be silent and just listen to them without reciprocating and responding to them or talking about anything then they will feel bored in your company and depart. And if you do not speak up then they will try a hard time understanding and knowing you and what is unknown is always scary and irritating for people they will try their best to avoid you.

2- People start taking you for granted and will only use you for their mean purposes:

If you do not speak and talk people will take you lightly and even take your services for granted, in general people will not value you and will only use you for their own benefit because a silent person is most commonly a good person.

3- People will start controlling and dominating you:

People start treating you badly, offend you and insult you or make fun of you because they have confidence, and they know that you will not take any defense.

4- Some people will take you as a proud person:

It happened many times with me when I did not speak to people at social gatherings and parties people took me as a proud person who is proud of her degrees and education.

5- Some people will take you as a shy person who is an extra-ordinary introvert:

Some people try to be compassionate they think that you have a personality problem and you are an ignorant and introverted person who faces social anxiety and could not speak up for yourself.

6- People will not come to know your pain and problem:

When you do not tell others about the problem from which you are suffering or do not tell them about your pains then they will throw extra demands on you and do not understand you. Unless and until you speak up they do not come to know you.

Final thoughts:

It`s all about using your tongue properly at the correct time and it is an art to use your tongue in a correct manner and refrain yourself from speaking when it is not required. It means you must only be silent when necessary and speak up when it is needed. Try to avoid loose talk and speaking unnecessarily because it will invite problems in your life.

Hazrath Ali (R.A) said that the person who hurts and insults others with his tongue will find hurdles and problems in his life.

Once one Man asked Imam Ali (R.A)

Ya Ali, what I should do to end my problems in life and open the door of abundance and provision?

Imam Ali (R.A) Said to stop hurting people with your tongue Allah opens the doors of provision and abundance for people who speak sweetly and do not hurt people with his tongue.

And Allah is displeased with those who hurt others and insult with his tongue and do not apologize for it. And when Allah is not happy his angels do not surround that person with prayers and mercy and thus that person ends up getting stuck in problems and hurdles in life. To read more about

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Hazrath Ali (R.A) said you will start receiving hidden and unknown messages from the skies and heavens above about the future if you do this!

Once one Man asked Imam Ali (R.A) How can I get messages about my future and how can I know something which is unknown and hidden from this material world?

Imam Ali (R.A) said Those who repent sincerely to Allah for sins every night and forgive everyone who hurt and harm for the sake of Allah.

Then for that person, Allah opens the doors of the heavens and skies and he will start knowing what is unknown and hidden and will also start to receive secret messages about the future happenings through his dreams.

And a human does not know the rewards Allah has kept for those who forgive others, especially those who harm and hurt.

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Hazrath Ali (R.A) said some traits in your character define your level of humanity.

1-Your tears reach perfection when it comes to falling looking at others’ pains and suffering. And angels above purchase them from Allah because they are too much precious to describe.

2- Search for people with beautiful hearts because beautiful-looking people are many but people with beautiful hearts are few.

3- In this physical world on earth material things perish and break but human beings are different and special they become successful after hurting falling and breaking themselves.

4- Humanity is a great treasure do not search it by looking at people`s garments but search it in humans.

5- The people who remember death become happy with the less and feel gratitude towards Allah.

6- When your good times are moving, your mistake is also taken as a joke among people, but when your bad time comes, your joke will also look like a mistake to people.

7- A person`s humanity ends when he starts laughing at others’ pains and suffering.

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Hazrath Ali(R.A) Says that everyone is gifted and granted a treasure that is hidden by god, and it is written for one and all!

Allah has kept something very special and precious, a priceless treasure that does not come your way due to your own worldly desires and sins.

If you become a person who empties your soul from the below three things, you will be granted that hidden treasure that Allah has secretly kept for you.

1- Become a person without envy:

After living more than 30 years of my life, I can surely say with certainty that all human beings are envious.

If you can`t sleep, you envy the person who sleeps

if you can`t eat, you envy the person who eats

if you can`t find happiness in a relationship, your energy blocks others from getting united in your presence.

If you don`t have money, you envy the person who is rich

if you are sick; you envy the healthy person

if you have developed wrinkles and grey hair; you envy the young and beautiful.

That`s how life goes; we come across envy every day in our lives, and our hearts empties from this emotion.

You will achieve hidden success and something which Allah has been hiding from you due to your daily routine envy.

It`s greatly satisfying and calming to say to someone that I am happy in your happiness may Allah bless you with more!

2- Become a person without greed:

A greedy person is someone who wants to have everything for himself or herself and does not like to share it with others. The minute you are selfish, you are a failure, and the minute you are giving, you are a success. If we learn to share with others, we will soon realize that our sharing has benefitted one and all others. But when you do not share, that thing goes to waste.

For example, if you cook a sweet dessert, you want to reserve this special dish for yourself, your family, and no one else. You will soon realize that no one likes it or eats it, and then one day, you throw it in the garbage, but when you share it with your relatives and friends and also keep some for you and your family, then it receives blessings from Allah, and everybody enjoys it.

3- Become a person without lust:

I researched this subject and came to know that overeating non-veg develops lust inside humans. And fasting and eating vegetables and fruits can help to come out of it.

It`s a great achievement to come out of your lust.

Come out of your lust, and purify your soul with positive thoughts that benefit one and all.

If you become a person who is without envy, greed and lust then for that person Allah opens the doors and shows the path of heavens and skies and you will achieve and see something which is hidden from this world.

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Prophet Mohammed (SAW) Said that charity can change your life and convert bad into good!

Once Prophet Mohammed (SAW) was having a conversation with a poor man in his villa and just that time Angel Jibrael entered with a message from Allah.

He said Ya Rasool Allah (SAW) his life is only till zuhar tomorrow and he is going to die tomorrow!

There comes tears in the eyes of Prophet Mohammed (saw)

He asked that poor man what he likes.

He said he do not have money as he is very poor so he can`t effort to eat sweets and he is fond of eating sweet. And just because he is very poor he cannot get married.

Prophet Mohammed (saw) called his guard disciples and arranged his quick marriage and when he went home with his wife he ordered his guards to surround themselves to his house if any sobbing or crying voices comes to inform him immediately.

The guards were roaming around his house, and no crying but laughing voices comes from his home.

Next day

Prophet Mohammed (saw) asked the poor man how his marriage went did he eat the sweets that he send him on his wedding night?

That poor man replied

“Ya Rasool Allah (SAW) Just when i was about to start eating my dinner with my new wife one beggar knocked my door and he wa too much hungry i gave him all my food including the sweets which you gave me.

Then Angel Jibrael came and informed

Allah loves the people who give charity and help others and when he fed that beggar he made Duaa

May Allah grant him a good life and let him be always happy in his life.

Allah cannot resist this prayer and he increased his lifespan because of his charity and beggars Duaa for him.

Prophet Mohammed (saw) bowed down in Sajdah and prostrated then and there with tears of joy in his eyes and brought good news and good wishes for people with a healing message from Allah that

Allah will increase lifespan and convert bad into good if you help others, take their prayers, and do charity.

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